20 One Side Love Quotes in Hindi

"२० खूबसूरत और दिल को छु जाने वाले लिखे गए लव कोटास" यंहा पर हिंदी में पढ़े!!

1. "Love is a two-way street constantly under construction."
— Carroll Bryant
"प्यार एक दो तरफी सड़क है लगातार जीसका निर्माण होता है!"

2. "Happiness is a drug. And I want to be your dealer."
— Unknown
"खुशी एक दवा है। और मैं तुम्हारा डीलर होना चाहता हूँ। "

3. "You can stay, but your clothes must go."
— Unknown
"आप रह सकते हैं, लेकिन अपने कपड़े जाने चाहिए।"

4. "Tell him I'm going to the back seat of my car with the woman I love, and I won't be back for 10 minutes!"
— Homer Simpson
" उसे बताओ कि जिस औरत से मैं प्यार करता हूँ उसके साथ अपनी कार के पीछे की सीट पर जा रहा हूँ, और मैं वापस 10 मिनट के लिए भी नहीं आना चाहता!"

5. "Falling in love is when she falls asleep in your arms and wakes up in your dreams."
— Unknown
"जब ​​वह तुम्हारी बाहों में सो जाये और तुम्हारे सपनों में जागे तब प्यार में पड़ना ।"

6. "Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it."
— Candace Bushnell
"पुरुष को आग का पता चल सकता है, लेकिन महिलाए जानती है उसके साथ कैसे खेला जाता है।"

7. "Get your cute butt over here and give me a fucking hug."
— Unknown
"यहाँ पर प्यार से बेठ जाओ और जोरोसे मुझे अपने गले लगाओ।"

8. "Love is the answer, but while you're waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions."
— Woody Allen
"प्यार एक जवाब है, लेकिन आप जवाब का इंतज़ार कर रहे हैं, जबकि, सेक्स कुछ बहुत दिलचस्प सवाल उठाता है।"

9. "The only thing worse than a boy who hates you: a boy that loves you."
— Markus Zusak
"केवल एक चीज बदतर है एक लड़का जो तुमसे नफरत करता है वही लड़का तुम्हें प्यार करता है"

10. "It wasn't love at first sight. It took a full five minutes."
— Lucille Ball (on Desi Arnaz)
"यह पहली नजर का प्यार नहीं था। इसमें पुरे पांच मिनट लग गइ।"

11. "I talk about you like you put stars in the sky."
— Unknown
"तुम्हारी तरह आकाश में तारों के साथ मैं तुम्हारे बारे में बात करता हूँ।"

12. "If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you."
— Winnie the Pooh
"अगर तुम सो साल जीते हो, तो मैं सो साल में से १ दिन कम जीना चाहता हूँ, जिस्से मुझे तुम्हारे बिना जीने की जरुरत ना पड़े।"

13. "When I saw you, I was afraid to meet you. When I met you, I was afraid to kiss you. When I kissed you, I was afraid to love you. Now that I love you I am afraid to lose you."
— Anonymous
"जब मैंने तुम्हें देखा तो मुझे तुमसे मिलने में डर लग रहा था।
जब मैं तुमसे मिला, तो मुझे तुम्हे किस करने में डर लग रहा था।
जब मैने तुम्हे किस किया, तो मुझे तुम्हे प्यार करने में डर लग रहा था।
अब जब कि मैं तुमसे प्यार करता हूँ तो मुझे तुम्हे खोने का डर लग रहा है।"

14. "True love stories never have endings."
— Richard Bach
"सच्ची प्रेम कहानियां कभी खतम नहीं होती।"

15. "The only magic I still believe in is love."
— Unknown
"केवल मैं अभी भी प्रेम के जादू में विश्वास रखता हूँ।"

16. "Just give me a comfortable couch, a dog, a good book, and a woman. Then if you can get the dog to go somewhere and read the book, I might have a little fun."
— Groucho Marx
"बस मुझे एक आरामदायक सोफा, एक कुत्ता, एक अच्छी किताब, और एक औरत दे। तो फिर तुम्हे कहीं जाना है पुस्तक पढ़ने के लिए कुत्ते को ले जा सकते हो, तब मैं यंहा थोड़े मजे कर सकता हूँ।"

17. "A hug is like a boomerang: you get it back right away."
— Bil Keane
"एक आलिंगन एक वापसी की तरह है : आप इसे वापस सही दूर चले जाओ।"

18. "In my sex fantasy, nobody ever loves me for my mind."
— Nora Ephron
"मेरी सेक्स कल्पना में, कोई भी कभी भी मुझे मेरे मन के लिए प्यार नही करेगा।"

19. "Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be {{ married to a man who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that's a real treat."
— Joanne Woodward
"सेक्सिनेस थोड़ी देर में चली जाती है और सुंदरता ढल जाती है, लेकिन {{ उस आदमी से शादी करो जो आपको हरदिन हसाता रहे!, अह और यही एक वास्तविक इलाज है।"

20. "Love thy neighbor — and if he happens to be tall, debonair, and devastating, it will be that much easier."
— Mae West
"वे प्यारे पड़ोसी - और अगर वह लंबा, ख़ुशमिज़ाज, और विनाशकारी होता, यह है कि बहुत आसान हो जाएगा।"

अगर आप बेस्ट कोटास ढूंड रहे हो अपने फ्रेंड्स और लवर को शेर करने के लिए तो यंहा आप की खोज खतम हो जायेगी! ज्यादा कोटास के लिए स्टेटस के लिए हमारे इस ब्लोग को सबस्क्राइब कर सकते हो जिससे आपको हमारी पोस्ट इमेल थ्रू मिल जायेगी!

- धन्यवाद

5 questions about what women think?

These are the points prove that women thinks differently from men!

What women think?
After years of observation, coupled with good and bad, novel and weird experiences, I thought I must pen down, especially for the men out there who like to be around a good woman but ends up with a victimizer. There are countless questions pertaining to women that have always puzzled men and some questions are answered here.

Are women really beautiful?
Undoubtedly, women are beautiful, from a man’s eye. However, taste sometimes differ in men but psychologically, men are instinctively attracted to the opposite sex. But some men would casually appreciate another man’s handsomeness; a woman would go beyond an appreciation for another woman’s beauty.

Women talk about everything, I mean everything. You will observe that when a man talks about his sex life, his friends would turn it into a mischievous adventure, but when a woman talks about her sex life, her friends discuss the issue like they are in a boardroom.

It is very disturbing and perplexing for men to find a geek hanging around with a beautiful woman.
The man will question, “What the heck she sees in him?” The answer is that some women give more importance to the way a man is treating her than what he looks like, of course there are few, sorry more exceptions. This sort of proves that as long as men treat women the way she wants to be treated, she will fall for that man even if he isn’t good looking. Of course, she always has an escape route if she ever wants to explore sex with a handsome man and most women do use this quite often without letting anybody know.

Women’s beauty is a man’s weakness and women are extremely happy with it. In order to incite sexual feelings in a man, she only has to wear revealing clothes and the work is done. But a man’s work is much tougher. If he wants to impress a woman, he has to use enormous numbers of witty one-liners. Let’s accept that it is a hard job.

A man will have to ignore what he feels about the woman and say what the woman wants to hear.  

Why women are stronger than men?
Men are instinctively attracted toward women without even exploration the source. And a woman knows exactly how and why men are attracted to them.

Women will naturally be excellent sexologists because of their in-depth knowledge about men’s sexual psyche. And men blindly allow his sexual feelings to take over his disposition and women just love that. Sometimes men do fear of analyzing their sexual psyche because they feel they might lose their sexual interest from women, which is absolutely untrue.

Men will begin to do things that would fuel their hope of satisfy their sexual desires from the woman they admire. And that is where a woman comes into action in manipulating the whole situation. She will use each and every tool in her closet to starve the man from sexual satisfaction and will also not allow his admiration for her to die out. He will be hanging in the mid-air in the hope of getting the woman and also won’t decide to give up on her. This is how men voluntarily shed their mental strength and consider women as stronger than them.

The mere fact that men take all crisis in their stride and women freely complain over petty issues proves that men are stronger than women. But men believe that if they are helpless in front of a woman sexually, he thinks that women are stronger than him.

Are women more intelligent than men?
The physical strength that women lack is made up with an extra ability to communicate. Men are born thinkers. They think more than they speak.

Women have an impressive ability to argue and turn the tables around in her favour even when she knows she is wrong. Men, even though they are physically stronger and more courageous, they are, in their heart, gullible. They like to be soft and gentle with women. Women like to control men with force.  

They believe that if a woman is beautiful, then she has to be a good natured and intelligent, and when they realize that it isn’t true, they prefer to stick to their belief.

Many a times, employers hire women who are beautiful and good talkers, but even after realizing that his judgment about her ability and intelligence was wrong, the employer continues to make erroneous decision in the future. Could it be true that words speaks louder than action? Never know in women’s case.

Yes, not all women are stupid, but not all men can use their high intelligence when they are with a woman. Men are more intelligent than women, but it’s the woman who uses more of her little intelligence.

How to win an argument with a woman?The only way to win an argument with a woman is never to argue with her. Discuss. Women hate discussing sentimental issues with men. They like to manipulate the emotional side of a man to get what she wants. They fear that if men begin to think, they will not get the desired behaviour from the man.

Men have to learn the skills of lying and manipulating. Women are naturals.

As the saying goes, “When you open the door of the heart of a woman, you will find yet another door inside.” They never say what they mean and say what they don’t exactly mean.

Woman’s position is dominant in a relationship as long as she remains enigmatic to the man. They strive to know what the man is thinking to revise her stand in his life, and will conceal her own feelings to keep the man guessing. She likes men to be ever creative and find new ways to please her.  

And if she detects that the man is getting laid back in the relationship, to bring him back on his toes, she will enact a situation that will make the man guilty of not taking care of the woman as she expects. Men need change but women hate change. To keep everything the same the woman will want men to change.  

Men feel guilty very soon and that is a powerful weapon in the hands of women, but men don’t know that. Even if she isn’t hurt, she will show the man that he has hurt her feelings and he should feel guilty if he really loves her. This way the man never realizes that he is actually a better lover then his woman.

How can you manipulate a woman?
This is a million-dollar question, isn’t it? To know what women thinks could unravel the mystery of the universe, to say the least. Women could be natural manipulator, but men can learn the skills of manipulation if they observe the woman meticulously.

A man could possibly live without a woman, but a woman definitely cannot live without a man. Even though women are more desperate to be with a man, but it’s the man who expresses his impatience to be with a woman.

Women are more physical than men. They are more particular about the way she dress, looks and walks. Men are like the adventurous wanderers; they like to be what they really are. It is understandable that when women are working so very hard to look good, she wants men also to put efforts to praise her hard work.

Women feel more insecure than men, but it is the man who expresses his possessiveness. Man knows that other men could easily take his woman for a rid and so he dislikes his woman to talk to other men. Women know that all men are attracted to beautiful women, and so she dislikes when she sees another woman getting friendly with her man and demands her man to start mistreating the other woman.  

The most common mistake a man makes is to ‘try’ to satisfy the woman. First, it is highly unlikely that a woman knows what she really wants and what will make her happy. A man will spend all his life to do exactly what a woman wants and still the woman will complain that she isn’t happy. The problem here is women don’t know what will make her satisfied and eternally happy. ‘Happiness lies within’ is something women can’t understand.

The only way to manipulate a woman is to be a woman yourself. Think like a woman. Of course, don’t behave and dress like a woman. If men too start complaining on petty issues like women do, if men too start making women guilty, if men too talk to women just like other women talk to her, if men too show that he is hurt by her action/words, then that man can manipulate the woman.

However, there is no one rule because there are ‘n’ numbers of varieties of women out there who are waiting to show men how enigmatic they are. Women can easily drive men crazy by complaining about his behaviour toward her and still she never let’s him know what exactly she wants. As long as she makes the man guilty of not satisfying his woman, she will have an upper hand.

Women like men to share his feelings. But men feel uncomfortable to do so because of the obvious reason, which women prefer not to understand. That is why women dislike unpredictable men and force men to believe that his woman is unpredictable and so he must be very careful. Men must say what he doesn’t mean and mean what he doesn’t say.  

Men are basically more honest to their woman and feel uneasy if they have to pretend. Women are comfortable pretending anything, anytime. She can show that she is madly in love with a man even when she actually loves somebody else. Men, if they don’t like a woman, he will not be able to conceal his lack of interest.

Manipulation is all about controlling the present moment. Doesn’t matter who eventually wins in the end, but women aim to win in the present and remain unconcerned about the end. Women deal with a situation one at a time and men tries to solve the problem in one go. Women are very patient if she wants to change a man; men are impatient and take drastic steps if he wants to change a woman, and ends up seeing himself changed by that woman.

Manipulation is handling the situation that is suitable for men at that particular moment and even if what he says and does isn’t really him, he must do what the situation demands in order to remain in control of the situation. It is a mind games and what a man feels is not necessarily to be conveyed to the woman.

I hope men will be benefited from my observation. I also expect women will to be upset with me for unveiling their secrets. This article will go on and on if I have to write everything I know about women. Therefore, I adjourn this workshop on, “What Women Think?”

Present Generation of Indian Youth

There was a time when life was simple and social equations even simpler. Society consisted of an older generation and a younger generation and the twain met somewhere in between.
QED. Along came the New Age sociologist with trendy buzzwords and PowerPoint presentations and, suddenly, entire generations were reduced to alphabets. The X Generation, the Y Generation, the e-Generation, Baby Boomers, the Millennials and the newly coined iGeneration.

Sociology, demographics, the social sciences and popular culture have come together in one great melting pot to define who we are, the way we think and how we live. It is clearly not an exact science and generalisations can be misleading, but even so, today's youth in India represent a generation for whom the biggest visible change has been in lifestyles. The old socialist mantra of "rice in every bowl" has now been replaced with "a cell phone in every hand".

The rising tide of affluence has given today's youth the advantages of technology and a range of opportunities that no generation before them had. Nor have they ever represented such a predominant section of Indian society.

That may represent a marketing strategist's dream with visions of a consumer behemoth driving a new youth economy of unprecedented scale and extravagance. With the wallets of the 20-35 age group stuffed with credit cards, the obvious fallout would be mass fads and a voracious appetite for big brand names. At one level, that is partly true.


From jeans to sneakers and cars to computers, manufacturers and advertisers are unflinchingly targeting the youth market. Globalisation and liberalisation, they assume, has created a generation of clones who worship at the nearest gym instead of the nearest temple, are into the latest fads, whether diet, gadgets, sexual attitudes or fashion and basically dance to the same beat.

Yet, as the INDIA TODAY-AC Nielsen-ORG-MARG survey shows, that is largely a fallacy. An amazing 78 per cent respondents say that they have never dieted to look good (Dr Atkins would have eaten his heart out), 87 per cent feel that men and women are given equal opportunities in their homes, 82 per cent would rather live in India than abroad, 60 per cent would not use sex appeal to get ahead in their careers and 75 per cent say luxury goods should be taxed higher, along with the rich. Hello, there's a reality check here.

Even discounting rural youth, urban India was widely seen as embracing get-ahead liberalisation in attitudes and ambition. Judging by the response, globalisation, that overused phrase, seems to have passed them by without leaving much of an impact. Even sexual attitudes are comparatively conservative, contrary to the trends visible in cinema, television serials and music videos.

What's more surprising is hypernationalism- even aggressive and militant at times-towards say Pakistan, especially at a time when both sides are moving towards peace and reconciliation. Similarly, in the midst of economic liberalisation, the Indian youth is turning inwards, strengthening traditional values and displaying conservative attitudes across the board.

That could, paradoxically, be a direct result of growing affluence and self-belief. As youth icon Amitabh Bachchan remarked recently, "India is shining on the global map.We have opened the doors to the world. The current generation has the boon of exposure to multiple influences and opportunities. It is natural that they would be a more confident and self-assured lot."

Sam Pitroda, the man most identified with India's technological revolution in the official arena, finds that today's youth makes him greatly optimistic about the future. "They are hampered by the brain chain as opposed to the brain drain," he stated, adding: "Let them fly."
Fly they will but in which direction? Inherent in the responses, there is a touch of arrogance and overconfidence, particularly in relation to their worldview (anti-Americanism, Pakistan-bashing and anti-globalisation) and their lifestyle choices (a majority oppose live-in relationships or kissing in public). Affluence breeds arrogance and overconfidence and often overrides reason.

This is, in every sense, a pumped up but paradoxical generation: it prefers the outward trappings of western culture - DKNY, Dockers and Reeboks are standard- but underneath beats a very traditional Indian heart. Much like the Chicken Tikka burgers they serve in McDonald's across India.

There are parallels here with futurologist Alvin Toffler's treatise in Beyond Future Shock, in which he argues that each generation's social memory focuses on its own defining moments. For earlier generations, the defining moment wasWorldWar II, yet in a survey this generation of Japanese and Americans assumed that the two nations were always allies.

Apply that to India, and according to the survey, the defining moment for today's youth was the Kargil conflict. This explains why today's youth display such aggressive intent towards Pakistan. The jingoism is reflected in their answers; their willingness to join the army if required (82 per cent) and war with Pakistan.

Toffler relates this obliteration of social memory or generational amnesia to the "turbo-charged change" taking place in most parts of the world. He argues that social memories vary in different regions of the world, in part because of differences in the rate of change.
Where change is swift, very little of the past repeats itself. In slow-change societies, the process of generational amnesia is slower. The elderly, he says, are respected in slow-change societies because they can recall the past and draw lessons from it.

In the Indian context that raises some intriguing questions. In India, with its multiple social layers, there is rapid change at one level, and very slow change at another. Today's youth cannot be bracketed together as being representative of an entire generation.
If one were to go by numbers and trends, it is basically the middle-class youth that will dominate lifestyle choices and social attitudes.

It is this section of Indian society that is largely responsible for what writer Salman Rushdie refers to as "chutneyfication". Social anthropologists refer to this as the outcome of the cultural clash between globalisation and local communities. Globalisation in such a situation does not necessarily erode cultural identity, instead it leads to the localisation of western attitudes and trends.

In India, it is seen in everything from Pizza Hut's chicken tikka pizza to raga techno music, from European fashion married to traditional Indian motifs to dietician Shikha Sharma's ayurvedic modification of the Atkins diet. It is also seen in MTV lingo and global brand advertising. Britney Spears does not sell brands in India, but Saif Ali Khan, Rahul Dravid and Preity Zinta do. The boundaries between East andWest have met, creating a new sub-culture.

Yet, it is still a community that is sending out mixed signals: conservative, even a tinge of socialism in terms of questions relating to the economy, family values, sex (a majority frown on pre-marital sex), careers (most would prefer a secure government job), education (a majority prefer to study in India rather than abroad) and lifestyles (thumbs down to extravagant weddings). There is very little in their responses that suggests a dramatic generational change, except perhaps in outward affluence and optimism.

Can this confused generation lead us to a better tomorrow? Better educated, with greater spending power and more tech-savvy, the urban, economically powerful young have undoubtedly an enormous role to play in shaping the India of the future. Judging by their attitudes and responses to the survey, they are just not sure how to go about doing that.
Generation Defined
Baby Boomers: Those born between 1946 and 1964. They were the antiwar generation, sporting beards, beads and peace signs, characterised by increased social awareness and a deep concern for not only their generation, but the nation and global issues as a whole.

Generation X: People born in the 1960s and '70s, although the exact dates are highly debated. It was also described as a generation of those people whose "teen years touched the 1980s".

Generation Y: Refers to those born between 1981 and 1995. In America, they are over 57-million-strong, the largest consumer group in the US history. They were also referred to as the Millennials, specifically those born after 1982, the children of Gen X who, according to the book Millennials Rising: The Next Great Generation, "are voracious consumers driving a new global economy".

The e-Generation: The techno warriors of the world, also referred to as nerds. These are the tech-savvy, wired generation who found their religion in computerland and spoke a weird language of bytes and bits and ate Pentium chips for breakfast, lunch and dinner. They include people like Bill Gates and are the generation who, ensconced in Silicon Valley, shaped and continue to shape our future at work and at play.

Generation Next: Today's youth, with greater spending power and more technically savvy than previous generations, they are optimistic about the future, yet hamstrung by the fear of making the wrong decision and hence conservative to a fault. In Britain, they are dubbed the iGeneration because of their signature fashion accessory, the iPod.

Easy Ways to Know if Your Husband is Lying to You

If you think your husband is cheating, you’re picking up on important subconscious clues. Here are 5 signs your husband is cheating, plus 4 ways to know if he’s lying to you about the affair.

1) signs Your Husband is Cheating These tips are from Gary Neuman, author of The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It. On the Dr Oz show, this marriage counselor shared why men cheat and how to know if your husband is cheating. It’s important to learn the reasons men cheat, because that knowledge will help you determine if you can save your marriage. Infidelity can shatter trust and breed insecurity and resentment. People who think it won’t happen to them are hit that much harder when they find out their husbands are lying about cheating. Why are men unfaithful? Can infidelity be prevented? What do men say they’re getting from their mistresses that they’re missing at home? Do a man’s friends have anything to do with his willingness to cheat?

2) “More than 50% of all men have cheated in a love relationship,” says Dr Oz. “Trying to rebuild trust after an affair seems impossible.” In his audience that day, 30% of women think they’ve been cheated on…but not everyone knows for sure. Below are Neuman’s signs that a husband is having an affair. Plus, Janine Driver of the Body Language Institute shares four ways to know if your husband is lying about cheating.


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According to Gary Neuman, you can prevent your husband from cheating – and you can discern when he’s lying about cheating.

3) Husbands cheat for several reasons:

Monogamy not part of a man’s nature. Biology makes men want to have as many kids as possible, so they cheat with as many female partners as possible.
Power, opportunity, money increases testosterone. The more testosterone a man has, the more likely he is to cheat.
Specific genes makes men men more likely to cheat. Scientists are studying a “cheating gene”, which involves decreased levels of vasopressin.
Husbands aren’t appreciated at home, so they cheat.
Men aren’t able to emotionally connect with their wives or partners, so they cheat.
In Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken: Finding Forgiveness and Restoration, Cindy Beall describes how her life changed forever after an ordinary Valentine’s Day. She listened with disbelief to her husband, Chris, a respected pastor, confess to pornography addiction, numerous affairs, and the startling news that another woman was pregnant with his child. In her book, she describes how to protect a marriage from lies and cheating.

4) How Do You Know If Your Husband Will Cheat on You?

Gary Neuman has been a marriage therapist for 23 years. He wrote The Truth about Cheating because he wanted to empower women by showing them how men think – which includes why husbands cheat on their wives.


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This relationship counselor says 92% of men who cheat are sexually satisfied at home. Only 8% of men cheat because they want more physical intimacy. A whopping 48% say they’re missing an emotional connection at home, so they cheat on their wives. The women men cheat with are not better looking, younger, or skinnier than their wives. In fact, 88% of men say their affairs are with women who aren’t more beautiful than their wives.

Surprisingly, 77% of husbands who cheated had best friends who also cheated on their wives. This means that your husband’s friends have a very real, direct effect on your marriage. If your husband’s best friend is cheating, then the chances are higher that your husband may cheat on you.

5 Signs of Cheating Husbands

He’s not as interested in physical intimacy as he was before
He avoids physical and emotional contact
He criticizes you more often
He picks fights or starts arguments with you
He stays away from home
According to Gary Neuman, a woman’s intuition is the most important indicator that a man is cheating.

If you’re getting mixed messages from your instincts, it’s because this is an extremely emotional subject! Your marriage is one of the most important things in your life, and looking for signs your husband is cheating is devastating.

To stop over-thinking and learn how to trust your gut, read How to Develop Intuition in Your Relationship.

6) Neuman also said that lying is worse than the actual cheating. Husbands try to convince their wives that she’s crazy for thinking he’d have an emotional or physical affair – which is so destructive to her self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-image.

4 Ways to Tell if He is Lying About His Affair

Janine Driver of the Body Language Institute shares four fascinating ways to tell if a husband is cheating on his wife and lying about it. These tips are good, but not enough to know for sure if your husband is lying about cheating on you.

1. How your husband talks can be a sign of lying

Wives know their husbands; if he changes how he normally talks or behaves, then he might be cheating or lying. If he doesn’t usually talk in a high pitch or swiftly, then he’s trying to hide something.

2. What he says – specific statements – are indications of lying about his affair

When a husband says, “I know you think I’m lying” – they’re saying I’m lying. When they say “You may not believe me, but I’m telling the truth” – then they’re telling the truth. Lying husbands actually tell the truth, cushioned in lies. (Note that this can’t be 100% accurate because if a man knows this, he’ll change the way he speaks, right?).

3. Your husband’s nonverbal body language is a sign of cheating

Driver calls this the “belly button rule.”

When we’re telling the truth and are with people we like, admire, and trust, we face our belly buttons towards them. When your husband is lying about cheating, he’ll turn away from you – and you know he’s cheating! If their belly button faces the door or exit, it’s because subconsciously they want to leave or escape. Also, a shoulder shrug should never accompany a definitive statement.

Driver said to never believe verbal statements over nonverbal body language. Also – wrapping legs around leg of chair is a sign of restraint, of holding back, and not being honest. Leaning away from you is a sign of a cheating, lying husband because we lean away from things we want to avoid.

4. Emotional reactions to questions can be a sign of cheating and lying

If you confront your husband about your suspicion that he’s having an affair, and he gets angry, defensive, or overreacts emotionally, then it’s a sign that something’s up. Driver also mentioned that lying husbands tend to laugh nervously or make accusations towards their wives.


7) In Is He Lying to You? An Ex-CIA Polygraph Examiner Reveals What Men Don’t Want You to Know, Dan Crum reveals the two biggest signs of deception, the best way to trap a liar, and what to look and listen for when you suspect your husband is lying about having an affair.

8) A  complicating factor about affairs is the difference between physical and emotional cheating. If your husband is best friends with a woman and leaving you out of the relationship, it may be an emotional affair. Read Emotional Affairs Vs. Innocent Friendships to learn the difference between the two types of cheating.

9) Why do you suspect your husband is cheating – what are the signs he’s lying to you? I welcome your comments, but I can’t give advice. Sometimes writing your thoughts can help you work things out, because it can bring clarity and insight.

You might also be interested in learning the reasons why people cheat in relationships.

It might help to read through the comments about cheating below. The more you learn about other women’s experiences, the more insight you might have into your own relationship.

5 Signs Your husbund cheating with you

These are the 5 signs that you can understand your husband having affair or cheating with you!

1) He’s not as interested in physical intimacy as he was before

2) He avoids physical and emotional contact

3) He criticizes you more often

4) He picks fights or starts arguments with you

5) He stays away from home

14 questions men really want to ask INDIAN women.

GIRLS! If you think guys are hard to figure out, guess what? They're just as confused as you. Don't believe us?

Keep reading ahead as the guys get candid and spill the beans on what's bothering inside their head. And guys, there's more for you inside because we got the ladies talking to give you the perfect clarification to your queries. So here it is - 17 questions guys are dying to ask you, gals.

1) "How can I ask my girlfriend to be more adventurous in bed?"
Everyone's tongue-tied in this matter.

Women who are more of an obedient and submissive participant in the bedroom speaks out and says, 'don't ask. Show. Take her in your subtle control. Or better still 'give her 50 Shades of Grey and then ask her to explain it to you practically,' suggests Kritika. And if both doesn't lead to any excitement then 'talk to her. Tell her you love what you guys are already doing but you'd like to try more fun and adventurous,' points out Firdaus Shaikh, motor enthusiast and automobile writer.

2) "Why do I need to remember your dog's birthday?"
Remembering your birthday is quite a task for him, so why the extra burden, gals!

Women keeps in mind every single date - your birthday, your mom's, dad's, best friend's, first date, second date, the day you were late for that dinner date, the day you missed texting her 'good morning'. Each and every thing! Doesn't "caring about things I care about" mean anything to you, guys?!


3) "Why does my ex keep trying to be my friend?"
Men find it utterly confusing to see their EX trying to be extra friendly. Stop messing with his mind and heart, ladies!!!

It's as simple as it looks - she has feelings for you. Or she might just be bored and lonely as Anu, a pharmaceutical professional notes.


4) "Why don't you appreciate boy's night outs?"
Why should gals have all the fun? Of course, boys want to have fun too (but without you)!

Because secretly women don't want you to have more fun than you have with them.


5) #FlirtAlert "Why don't you introduce me to THAT beautiful friend of yours?"
Jo tera hai, woh mera hai! My friends are your friends. So your beautiful friend should be my friend too, grieves every guy-who've-been-deprived-of-introduction-to-your-beautiful-friend

It's not that women are insecure. A guy's loyalty is the most prized possession for a girl. And she doesn't want to share her prize because she knows you'll start flirting with her!


6) "What's the best way to approach an attractive woman?"
Tried and tested every lame idea, men need help!

Guys keep your mind open, women wants you to be genuine, decent and smell good and please DON"T be a showoff. Simplicity speaks for itself, as Anuradha puts it.


7) "What part of a guy's body does women like the most?"
Men have body insecurities too, you know!

Brain! So use it often, suggests every women. Of course, apart from smile, hands and well toned shoulders.


8) "How long should I wait to call a woman after she's given me her number?"
Time's ticking. Can't. Wait. Any. Longer!

On average, women wants you to wait for about 3-4 days. See even they can't wait for your call. It's a big decision, for sure, and you don't want others to call her before you. So just pick up that phone of yours and call her right away. Just don't sound too needy.


9) "Have you ever experimented with other women?"
No, it's not a tricky question! Imagining two hot women, together, turns him on.

But sadly the response we have for your hot fantasy will be a sure shot killjoy. Because we haven't come across any 'yes' (so far) but only NOES. Sorry guys, maybe some other time.


10) "What's the best way to impress a woman on the first date?"
After all first impression is the best impression.

Flowers, of course, but try a different pretty flower other than rose. It's just too regular. Don't forget to be nice, genuine but don't be too sweet and flattering in the process. Also talk nicely because mannerisms always count and DO NOT boast! All those muscles and outer appearances go down the drain as she gets to know you. Try to make her laugh, 'cause hansee toh phansee, right!


11) "Is she into me or just being nice?"
I am confused...

At first, probably, she is just being nice. But keep reading the signs and you'll know when she's into you. Or maybe ask her right away.


12) "How can I escape the friend zone?"
It's very crowded in there - complains guys who's-been-there!

Some days there's just no escaping to it. But you could always politely refuse to be her friend. Because you know, lovers can't be 'just friends'.


13) "How do women prefer the guy's junk?"
Of course, guys will go to any length to impress you. Even if that means grooming his pee pee, if only they knew your preference!

Hands down, cleanliness and hygiene matters the most, not much the size. As long as you're satisfying her in bed, it doesn't really matter. But yes, as one of the response point out, to a certain extent size does matter.


14) "Why do you always want to have the "Baby! we need to talk" conversation when the game is on?"

So that the rules are clear. Sadly women feel that is the time we can have your attention. This could be avoided if you start giving her more candid 'talk time' so she won't have to look for it at wrong times. So that some rules are clear before it is too late.

REFERENCE : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/

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Why Women Have Extramarital Affairs !

It's not all about lust.

Kavita. 36. Warm. Friendly. Highly accomplished. Doctor. Mother. Married.

After ten years of marriage, three vacations and one child, Kavita realised that she needed more in life. She went away on solo vacations, took up yoga, found herself in meditation and still needed more.

She had so much energy. That much love to give. And at 36, she could not waste it by sitting at home and waiting for her husband to figure out what she needed. That’s when David entered her life and she started having a rocking affair.

Why are so many married women having affairs? Here are 5 reasons:

1. Loneliness – You’re at home with your husband and he’s watching TV and you’re trying desperately to make conversation. On a weekend you want to go on a date and he takes you to the movies. All the while he is on the phone checking his emails and chatting with someone else.

Also read: Why Indian women cheating more is actually a good thing

And if half the time he’s travelling or comes home late at night, a woman is bound to feel lonely. She feels there’s no connection! She will reach for the closest man in her life – a childhood friend, the funny colleague, her brother’s best friend.

It all starts with the thought, "I’m so lonely. I just want to be appreciated."

Husbands need to engage with their wives, not just fulfil their duty. They need to bring back some romance and not take their wives for granted.

Also read: Why Indians have sex in bushes and feel dirty about porn

2. Lust – All women have body issues. No one is completely happy with who they are. So if a woman has gone to a party and a man has paid her a compliment sincerely and had a great conversation with her engaging her mind, you can be sure she will be lusting for him.

He may not be very handsome or ideal for the long term but he’s great for a good conversation and a shag maybe. It starts with the thought, "I need someone to be attracted to me."

Husbands need to have a passionate weekend/evening with their wives occasionally where the focus is on her and trying new things in bed to show how much they lust after her.

3. Nurturing – All women need attention and if there’s a man who’s giving her some attention and cares about her feelings, the affair is bound to happen.

All it takes is for a man to ask her, "Have you eaten? Are you ok?"

Women are born nurturers and do a lot in the day that husbands take for granted. If a man takes control of looking after her, he will have her heart.

Also read: Young India wants to have sex, don't ruin it

Husbands can truly care for their wives by helping with children, taking them out for dinners when she doesn’t feel like cooking, checking if she’s okay intermittently through the day.

4. Intellectual High – There are so many women who have affairs within their office or with men in creative fields. It’s because they’re attracted to intelligence, wit and creativity.

Most husbands refuse to share what’s happening at their work place, or talk about how they’re feeling and choose to let themselves lounge around at home saying they’re "tired."

It becomes boring for the woman who ultimately will seek out interesting new men. And if this man finds her interesting too, then she feels she’s matched to his creative energy and an affair happens.

No matter how dull the day was, it’s important for a husband to share it with his wife and always listen to her positively about her day as well.

Also read: Why single Indian women are hooking up with married men

5. Money & Power – Several men like being in middle management. They are comfortable with going to work, earning enough and coming back on time.

Without any hobbies, interests or ambition, a man can wither away and take his relationship down the drain as well. A woman is attracted to a man with plans, who wants to earn more, who is driven and wants to go further with his life.

She is even more excited when this man asks her for her opinion and follows through with it. If he is already in a position of power, she feels an adrenaline rush if an important man thinks she’s attractive!

Husbands should remember why their wives chose them in the first place and bring back that drive and ambition.

REFERENCE : www.dailyo.com

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